Mediation has been an option for many years now and is compulsory for most couples prior to issuing some forms of court proceedings.

It allows for disputes to be resolved quickly and cost effectively with a choice of mediator, location and timings.

Mediation has one significant drawback for some couples in that you do not have legal representation at a mediation session (although you can take advice outside of sessions.) The agreement that is reached is without prejudice and a solicitor can convert any financial agreement reached into a court order.


Collaborative law

Collaborative law, in my view, provides clients with a more supportive experience.

The benefit of collaborative law is that the practical arrangements of when, where and with whom can be made to suit the couple. Everything is in private and the process allows for very innovative outcomes. The collaborative process centres on a series of round table meetings and it is possible to involve financial advisors, accountants and counsellors if needed.

All advice given by either solicitor is in front of both clients and there are no unpleasant letters received out of hours.



Arbitration is a relatively new process within the family law arena. It is possible to arbitrate on some children matters, financial proceedings and, as I briefly mentioned at the beginning, since the 4 September 2017 in relation to some international family matters. Unlike mediation and collaborative law however, the process is used when the parties cannot reach an agreement.

It is in effect in a private court room. The arbiter sits instead of a judge and an award will